Struggle AND Gentleness

As we look at these two sections of A Clearing Season they make an interesting combination for our reflection. First, Struggle. Sarah Parsons writes of befriending one's fear, by welcoming points of struggle. It is a challenge for me to befriend my fears. I have a plethora of them, all the way from thunderstorms, to forced separation from those I love. I know that when I can listen to Jesus' words, "Do not be afraid" and take to heart that my faith will undergird me through the struggles, only then will I be more gentle on myself. Gentleness. Gentleness is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). We often focus on being gentle toward others, and that is important, indeed! However, it is equally important to be gentle with ourselves. Sarah writes "Gentleness takes into account our effort and stress; treating ourselves gently is a way of offering encouragement and appreciation..." and I would add here: for the living of each day. I know without a doubt that when I am gentle with myself, I have greater capacity to be gentle with others. When we are stressed, tired, fearful, angry, impatient, and... (name others), it is crucial to take time for a "clearing space, "a clearing season." How do you express gentleness for yourself? How do you live this fruit of the Spirit?
-Joan