Karensa Fischer writes...
My husband gave me a valentine this year that says "If you want what you have, then you have what you want". Over the past few weeks, this thought has creeped into my mind so many times. Besides the obvious choice of spouse context, this truism is applicable in many areas of daily life. Our media and culture is constantly bombarding us with things we "should" get to make our lives better: a new diet book, a bigger house, a better habit, a new way to relax, a new way to organize, a new way to look at the old way...we can even buy new body parts these days! We do live in overwhelming times.
It becomes increasingly difficult for me to sort out my "needs" from "wants". And then, even more difficult, to sort out my "wants" from the things I "think I want". The one thing that continually runs true for me is that the more I can whittle down my lists of "needs", "wants" and "think I want", the more free I am to enjoy being the person God made me to be. I am more likely to concentrate on the things that matter most when I am not letting myself be bogged down by more stuff, including all the things we want to do and be. Goals are good, but sometimes it's just plain overwhelming! Yes, I want to be healthier...and nicer...and more generous...and a better role model...and more frugal...a better public speaker...more noticeable to employers...and, of course, more dedicated to meditation and prayer....and I need to read more, write more, create more, sleep more, do more. You get the picture. But really it comes down to one thing: loving more. That's do-able. Not easy, but do-able. Sometimes I have to remind myself to "keep it simple, Silly."
So, my suggestion for Lent is that we not only realize that God provides generously for all our needs, but also that He has already provided us with many of our "wants" in that He has made us who we are and that does not include perfection! If we sit down and take stock of what we already have (and are), we probably will find that we really do not "want" for much more. Spiritual growth is important, but sometimes we need to just appreciate where we are in our journey and where we started from. Many of us have so much already. We have family, friends, jobs, a warm bed, and food on our tables (arguably too much food on our tables), but most important of all is that we were given the love of God before we even knew we "wanted" it. Live and love the moment you're in. "If we want what we have, then we have what we want". We are blessed, indeed.
It becomes increasingly difficult for me to sort out my "needs" from "wants". And then, even more difficult, to sort out my "wants" from the things I "think I want". The one thing that continually runs true for me is that the more I can whittle down my lists of "needs", "wants" and "think I want", the more free I am to enjoy being the person God made me to be. I am more likely to concentrate on the things that matter most when I am not letting myself be bogged down by more stuff, including all the things we want to do and be. Goals are good, but sometimes it's just plain overwhelming! Yes, I want to be healthier...and nicer...and more generous...and a better role model...and more frugal...a better public speaker...more noticeable to employers...and, of course, more dedicated to meditation and prayer....and I need to read more, write more, create more, sleep more, do more. You get the picture. But really it comes down to one thing: loving more. That's do-able. Not easy, but do-able. Sometimes I have to remind myself to "keep it simple, Silly."
So, my suggestion for Lent is that we not only realize that God provides generously for all our needs, but also that He has already provided us with many of our "wants" in that He has made us who we are and that does not include perfection! If we sit down and take stock of what we already have (and are), we probably will find that we really do not "want" for much more. Spiritual growth is important, but sometimes we need to just appreciate where we are in our journey and where we started from. Many of us have so much already. We have family, friends, jobs, a warm bed, and food on our tables (arguably too much food on our tables), but most important of all is that we were given the love of God before we even knew we "wanted" it. Live and love the moment you're in. "If we want what we have, then we have what we want". We are blessed, indeed.



